tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17484123.post8074254330225452768..comments2023-06-16T15:34:17.970+01:00Comments on What am I?: LossDrSpousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07259337858075146058noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17484123.post-65636806831804354022013-10-18T15:06:04.321+01:002013-10-18T15:06:04.321+01:00I don't care much about pursuing pregnancy now...I don't care much about pursuing pregnancy now either. I do wonder how to approach the losses with E when she is old enough, as well as the fact that we were originally matched with another girl before we were matched with her. Tough stuff to work through no matter the age, methinks.aplusefforthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12142056896638707180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17484123.post-73232299679542658942013-10-15T19:13:46.024+01:002013-10-15T19:13:46.024+01:00I do tell H now that I couldn't grow a baby in...I do tell H now that I couldn't grow a baby in my uterus. I suppose I will tell him about our losses someday. I mean, I honestly haven't thought much about it. But my guess it might come up as a question. Not sure how it would come up. It's interesting to think about now that you've brought it up.<br /><br />H does talk about whether or not he grew in my belly and he's kind of obsessed with death, so maybe it would make sense to bring it up sometime.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02996214314229242361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17484123.post-52293008777951843532013-10-15T08:57:47.117+01:002013-10-15T08:57:47.117+01:00I am so sorry for those losses, Dr Spouse. What an...I am so sorry for those losses, Dr Spouse. What an awful time. <br /><br />I know they (The Authorities) counsel Age-Appropriate Openness in these cases - but to me HOW you do it is everything. On the other hand, it does make sense to have the child grow up with these realities, so it is part of life. Twangypearl the Elastic Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12201898502319474580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17484123.post-35960820430815547942013-10-12T11:51:17.724+01:002013-10-12T11:51:17.724+01:00You and I have a lot in common , I also suffered s...You and I have a lot in common , I also suffered six miscarriages.The only advice I give is to go with your gut .My girls always knew our real reason for adopting it did not mean we cared any less for them .What it did help with was the whole picture of life , Everybody suffers loss ,some more than others but when your stories entwine you came with a very similar journey of pain .Pain that heals in time but never truly goes away .Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01432372941539394892noreply@blogger.com